Relationships nowadays go a little somethin like this: being initially attracted to someone or "liking someone" if you will, getting to know this one person more, getting sooooo dang happy that this awesome-ass person is in your life and wants you. Then you get into the bliss, which is a nice, happy-go-lucky, lovey-dovey relationship full of kisses and rainbows. Then, you come out of the relationship high and actually look at what's goin on and it's like, "Who are all these people trying to flirt with mah man??? Were they there before?". Then it's like grrrrrrrr, I'm jealous because I love this person so much and even though he's not even doing anything with anyone else, I'm still jealous. Then, your dude is like what the helllll is wrong with her, I'm not doing anything. Then you kiss him and it's all better. It goes more into the happy rainbow relationship and during this period, it goes like this:
:D Your really happy; everything's good again
:) This is goin good; This person's still for you
:[ What? No of course not. He's not cheating on me.
:( He couldn't; He wouldn't
>:'( How could he.
:'( Maybe it'll change
You come to the moment where you have to ask yourself, "Are you gonna be the grumpy little party pooper in this relationship and be lame and end it or are you gonna dream that this person is still yours?" Some choose to end it, which ends up in a no-contact situation with their ex and others choose to stick it out and get dumped, even though deep down they knew it was time. The worst-case thing that could possibly happen is, after getting dumped, you and your ex no longer talk and your in this awkward mess where one doesn't know what to say to the other. Even though all one of them wants to say is "What's up? How've you been? How's your life? What's going on?". Nothing more. It's not like we're gonna gang up on him and beat him into a brick wall and be like "WHY'D YOU DUMP ME BEEEEEYOTCH?!". They just wanna be able to talk, see how your doing, see if they needa talk to someone and know that you are always listening. It's so simple, so why can't I even say hi?
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